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What Are “Ideal People” and “People of Destiny”? Below is a simple explanation of these concepts. Ideal People “Ideal people” refers to the image of a perfect partner that one desires. For example, an ideal person may be kind, understanding,...
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In the past, I was constantly anxious about how much my partner truly loved me in a romantic relationship. This sense of unease affected even the smallest actions or words and occasionally caused me to become emotionally reactive toward my...
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In the past, I frequently asked my partner in a romantic relationship to “do this more” or “be able to do that.” Those requests might have stemmed from my own insecurities and a desire to fulfill my emotions. For example,...
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Many people might have experienced being in a relationship with someone kind, yet feeling a sense of incompleteness. Such experiences could lead you to seek qualities beyond kindness in your next relationship—such as stimulation, empathy, and other aspects you deem...
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The thought, “Next time, I want to be with someone like this,” comes from learning through past romantic experiences and leads to changes in your values and emotional needs. Let me explain further below. 1: Past experiences shape future choices. ...
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The person you still hold dear in your heart must be truly special. That feeling stems from cherished memories and the time you shared together, making it invaluable. Even if you’ve grown distant, the fact that you continue to hold...
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Balancing ideals and reality in romantic relationships is never easy. While holding onto your ideals is important, clinging too tightly to them can blind you to the charm and potential of reality. On the other hand, accepting reality excessively may...
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If your partner stops saying “I love you,” it may not necessarily indicate that their feelings have cooled. Instead of focusing solely on the form of love, consider the possibility that the relationship has evolved into a more stable and...
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You can determine whether someone truly values you based on their words and actions. The most important thing is not just what they say, but whether their actions align with their words. For instance, do they provide concrete help when...
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Romantic relationships evolve over time. Human emotions constantly change, and the shape of love shifts with close relationships. The initial enthusiasm transforms into calmness and trust, and the relationship bears fruit. Love is not only expressed through words but also...