Chapter 4: How to move his heart and win his heart
“Comfort” is important for taking love to the next stage. His love life goes through stages, and at first he wants to kiss you and have a physical relationship with you, but as you spend time together, he starts to realize what’s next. “Do you want to date or not?” If you are already in a relationship, “Do you want to get married?”
In this chapter, I will tell you specifically how to become a lover with him and how to marry him. The three important rules I’ve learned so far for getting him closer to the position he wants you to be are:
①Become a woman who is a little further away than “the position he wants you to be”
② Adjust to his sense of time
③Stay close to his values
She behaves like a woman who is a little far away, so much so that he feels like she wants him to come closer, and she understands his sense of time by being passive and responding only after he asks. If you continue to empathize with his values and behave in a way that suits him, he will feel comfortable and will unconsciously start to like you.
This comfort is very important in order to take your relationship with him to the next step. No matter where you are currently, being comfortable is essential in order to get closer to where he wants you to be. Even if you temporarily move closer to him, if you don’t feel comfortable with him, he will push you further away again.
If you have someone you enjoy being with for a long time, someone you don’t get tired of, someone you feel calm and comfortable with, you will want to spend the rest of your life with him, and you will be closer to marriage, which is where he wants you to be. How comfortable does he feel with your relationship now? First, please check the following checklist.
□Comfort check sheet
Check which of the following answers is closest to you: “Always,” “Once every two or three times we meet,” “Sometimes,” “Rarely,” and “Never.”
① Complain to your boyfriend or criticize him. Things like, “Please let me know,” and “I’m sloppy at washing the dishes and the stains aren’t coming off.”
・Always like that (0 points)
・We meet once every 2-3 times (2 points)
・Sometimes (5 points)
・Rarely (8 points)
・Not at all (10 points)
②I sometimes express negative feelings towards him. They may sulk, ignore you, cry, or threaten to break up with you.
・Always like that (0 points)
・We meet once every 2-3 times (2 points)
・Sometimes (5 points)
・Rarely (8 points)
・Not at all (10 points)
③ Even though you are worried, dissatisfied, or have something you want to ask him, you end up asking him questions like, “Why?” If I don’t understand something, I try to talk it out with him right away.
・Always like that (0 points)
・We meet once every 2-3 times (2 points)
・Sometimes (5 points)
・Rarely (8 points)
・Not at all (10 points)
④ Talk to him about your complaints, complaints, and worries about work and relationships.
・Always like that (0 points)
・We meet once every 2-3 times (2 points)
・Sometimes (5 points)
・Rarely (8 points)
・Not at all (10 points)
⑤From his perspective, you are often in a bad mood or emotional.
・Always like that (0 points)
・We meet once every 2-3 times (2 points)
・Sometimes (5 points)
・Rarely (8 points)
・Not at all (10 points)
⑥When he’s with you, he seems happy or happy, or gets excited about the conversation.
・Always like that (10 points)
・Every 2-3 times we meet, we meet once (7 points)
・Sometimes (5 points)
・Rarely (2 points)
・Not at all (0 points)
⑦Meet him when he invites you, or contact him when he sends you a message.
・Always like that (10 points)
・Every 2-3 times we meet, we meet once (7 points)
・Sometimes (5 points)
・Rarely (2 points)
・Not at all (0 points)
⑧ Express your gratitude to him through words and actions such as “Thank you” and “I’m happy.”
・Always like that (10 points)
・Every 2-3 times we meet, we meet once (7 points)
・Sometimes (5 points)
・Rarely (2 points)
・Not at all (0 points)
⑨I am considerate of his financial burden, such as the cost of daily dates and anniversary presents.
・Always like that (10 points)
・Every 2-3 times we meet, we meet once (7 points)
・Sometimes (5 points)
・Rarely (2 points)
・Not at all (0 points)
⑩I respect his work, what he wants to do, and his freedom and adapt to his needs.
・Always like that (10 points)
・Every 2-3 times we meet, we meet once (7 points)
・Sometimes (5 points)
・Rarely (2 points)
・Not at all (0 points)
Please calculate your total score using the 10 questions above.
What do you think? The higher the score, the more comfortable he feels with you. This is not a sheet that will tell you what score you need to pass the exam. I think there were both things that were successful and things that were not. Try using it to check regularly to see if the comfort he feels with you is increasing rather than decreasing.
No matter where you are currently, you need to address your concerns in order to move on to your next position. These concerns differ at each stage, so I will explain them in detail.
I want him to want to marry me – How to get closer to [positions 1 to 3]
Dispelling concerns about marriage When people become conscious of marriage, each partner becomes harsher in their evaluation of the other. Things that you didn’t worry about or considered to be your strengths during your relationship turn into things that you worry about when you get married.
Example: He loves drinking with his friends and goes out for drinks at least three times a week on weekdays. You and him often see each other on weekends, and his behavior on weekdays has never bothered you until now. However, even after getting married, I don’t think it’s a good idea to go out drinking at this pace, and I’m worried that he might not be able to save money.
These are common problems that women face when they start thinking about marrying a man. Similarly, he may start to notice things about you that he didn’t before.
Example: You are very fashionable and have a high sense of beauty. He likes you like that and is proud of you. However, when he thinks about marriage, he becomes a little worried, saying, “It’s going to cost a lot of money.” You are very enthusiastic about your work. He respects your work and thinks it’s great that you work hard even though you have to work a lot of overtime. It’s also fun to talk about each other’s work. However, when I think about getting married and starting a family, I am worried about housework and childcare.
Why do we start to judge each other more harshly when we become conscious of marriage? This is because most people want to marry someone who will make them happy, and they begin to see things that they didn’t care about during their relationship as concerns.
Therefore, it is important to analyze his love profile, especially his values, and eliminate his concerns about marriage one by one. Once he becomes convinced that it’s okay to stay married, things will move toward marriage.
What should you do if you have provided him with a sense of comfort in order for him to decide to marry you, and you have cleared up his concerns about marriage, but if you keep trying to talk to him about marriage, he is rejected, or things are not progressing at all? In that case, the “Marriage Pressure Strategy” is the most effective.
Marriage pressure strategy is a strategy where you are prepared to break up and force him to choose between “marriage” and “breakup”, and if he doesn’t choose marriage, you leave him completely. He had chosen to maintain the status quo due to your comfort, but he becomes deeply anxious and says, “I never thought you’d leave me,” and he decides to marry you because he realizes “I finally realized how important you are. I don’t want you to disappear.”
Of course, if you’re not in a hurry to get married and want to slowly develop your relationship with him over the years and wait for him to propose, then there’s no need to put pressure on him to get married.
◆What is marriage pressure strategy?
They don’t talk about marriage at all and will spend the next six months together happily. We strive to ensure a comfortable atmosphere so that there are no fights or misunderstandings, and no disturbing atmosphere is created. Make sure that you are able to eliminate any concerns you may have regarding marriage.
“By when do you want to get married? If that’s not possible, then break up right away.” Tell her clearly. She prepares to break up with him and tells him her two options: get married or break up. Cut the deadline for specific marriages within one year. However, if the dates are too close, it will not be possible to greet the parents in time, so a reasonable deadline will be provided. Avoid when he doesn’t have time (such as during troubles or busy seasons).
If he reluctantly agreed to marry me, I would be extremely happy. To further solidify his resolve, make a promise on the spot about specific actions, such as setting a date to greet his parents or go buy a ring. There are many people who are okay with it in words, but then become suspicious, so we will check his resolve through his actions.
If he doesn’t decide to get married, tell him clearly that he won’t be able to see you or contact you anymore and leave.
If he stays silent, makes mysterious excuses, or gives vague answers, break up with him. “If we can’t decide to get married, we won’t be able to see each other anymore, and we won’t be able to contact each other,” he says before leaving. From then on, whenever he contacts me, I just mark it as read and never reply. No matter how persistently he says, “I want to talk to you” or “I want to see you,” he replies once after waiting for more than a day, saying, “I’m sorry, but if you’re not ready to get married, I won’t be able to see you anymore, and I won’t be able to contact you again.” After that, he won’t reply. I don’t even answer the phone. The only time we get in touch is when he tells me he’s getting married.
However, if he is good at negotiating, he will accept the breakup and make you think, “This method didn’t work.” Therefore, no matter what he says, it will not work unless you continue to be serious about breaking up with him. You have to keep it up for a certain period of time (you have to do it consistently) without being influenced by what he says, “Can you wait until work calms down a bit?” “I love you, so it’s hard not being able to see you again.” “Can’t we go out to dinner?” You may have a very difficult time because you have to be prepared to break up, but this is the most effective way to get your boyfriend to decide to marry you.
How to become a lover with him – How to get closer to [4th to 6th position]
The strategies you use to date him will depend on whether you already have a physical relationship or not.
If you already have a physical relationship
Even though we have a physical relationship, he won’t date me. In order to date him, it is important to increase the benefits of dating you and reduce the disadvantages from his perspective. While you continue to have a physical relationship as before, and spend other time with you, try to be close to the values that he values and increase his happiness and enjoyment. For example, if he values “I want to be healed and like time to calm down,” I would increase the amount of time he has to relax and calm down.
However, it is difficult to date him with this alone. This is because he is now in a position where he can have a physical relationship with you without the responsibility of dating. The current state of being in a state where he can confidently say, “I don’t have a girlfriend,” if another wonderful woman appears while possessing your heart and body, is the best relationship for him. Under what circumstances would he want to date you?
◆Free strategy to make him decide to date you
In that case, the “free strategy” is the most effective. The free strategy is a strategy that moves his heart by making him realize that if he continues like this, he will lose you. If your physical relationship with him is going well and you haven’t seen him regularly for more than six months, then it’s time to implement a free plan right away. If it’s less than six months old, focus on increasing the time you spend comfortably.
Tell him clearly, “I want to date you. If that’s not possible, I won’t be able to see you or contact you anymore.” She prepares to never see him again, and tells him her two choices: be his lover or end the relationship. When he reluctantly agrees to go out with me, I’m extremely happy. It’s sunny and we’re lovers. Unless he decides to start dating, say goodbye and leave his presence. If he makes vague statements about shutting up or letting me think, leave immediately. And until he says, “Let’s go out,” I don’t reply to his messages, just mark them as read.
You can become the woman who says, “I’m tired of being in an ambiguous relationship.It’s painful, but I want to be with someone who wants to be with me, so I’m ending the relationship.” Sometimes he acts like he’s giving up on you and leaving. If he’s good at tactics, he’ll easily accept the breakup and use every word to make you think, “This strategy didn’t work,” or “If you keep going like this, you’ll lose him forever.” He will try to get you to go back to the relationship that was convenient for you. For example, words that try to get his attention, such as “Is it okay for us to be friends?” and “My feelings for you haven’t changed,” or “This is the last time we’ll contact each other. Hope you’re doing well, too,” and “You’ll find a better lover.” If you hear him say things like, “If I don’t go back to him now, I won’t be able to see him again.”
Still, no matter what he says, it won’t work unless you are serious and keep acting like you’re leaving his life. You must maintain a consistent attitude of completely leaving his life for a certain period of time (depending on the case, at least two months or more) without being influenced by his words. You must carry out the free operation with the understanding that you will never be able to see him again. You may have a very difficult time waiting for him to ask you to go out with him, but this is the most effective way to get him to decide to go out with you.
If you don’t have a physical relationship with him
In this case, it’s not a point of concern, but a point of caution. If you and your boyfriend have been dating for less than six months and have been going on a steady stream of dates, don’t rush into it; wait. It’s understandable that you might want to decide whether or not to date him, but you should wait for him to confess. That way, you can start the relationship with him feeling more excited.
If he tries to have a physical relationship with you before you start dating, or invites you on a trip or a date at his home, tell him in a kind and gentle way, “That’s something you have to do after you start dating.” Make him understand that “Once we officially become lovers, we can have a physical relationship,” and get him ready to start dating.
◆How to spot men who are looking for their body
I want to have a physical relationship with a woman, but I don’t want to take on the responsibility of dating a woman. Men with these values have distinctive behavior, so be sure to identify them early. Of course, there are some men who say, “It starts with a physical relationship, but then it leads to a relationship.” After having a physical relationship, such a man will try to start a proper relationship by saying things like, “Even though the order is reversed, I want you to go out with me,” or “I’m glad you want me to be your girlfriend.”
I don’t intend to completely deny love that starts with a physical relationship. However, I don’t want you to feel sad because you can’t date him even though you had a physical relationship with him. In order to avoid risks as much as possible from the beginning, we have compiled a list of common words and behaviors of men who are interested in their bodies. We recommend that you stay away from him if he shows any of the following signs:
Behaviors common to men who are interested in their bodies
①: There is no confession from him, there is a lot of body touching, and the distance is very close. From the first or second date, there is a lot of body touching, and there is a lot of body touching.
②: She wants to meet him behind closed doors without any confession from him. They invite you to your home with all kinds of reasons, such as “I’ll treat you to a homemade meal,” “I want to show you my dog,” “Let’s watch a movie together in my room,” and “There’s no last train, so why don’t you stay until the first one because it’s close to my house?” Or they will try to come to your home if you live alone. Sometimes he invites them on overnight trips, saying things like “Let’s go to a hot spring.” He also invites me to a closed room, saying, “Let’s go to a manga cafe.” (Karaoke is safe as long as there is no close contact or body touching)
③: He says dirty jokes without any confession from him. They ask direct questions like “Do you like sex?” “Is compatibility important when it comes to sex?” “How many people have you been with?” or “You have big breasts, don’t you?”
④You try to kiss him without him confessing to you. They may try to kiss not only your lips, but also your hair, cheeks, and hands. (If you receive a relationship request immediately after that, it’s safe.)
Men who approach you in this way are likely to be interested in your body. However, not all of them are extremely sexual and have the intention of “turning women into sex friends and having fun with them.” There are some men who are such evil men, and many men only think of themselves as lucky if they can have a physical relationship with their partner. There are many cases of shallow thinking, such as, “Once we have a physical relationship, if I want to go out with someone, I can think about it then.”
If you truly want to be cherished, loved, and have a happy relationship or marriage, I recommend that you run away from him who exhibits these characteristic behaviors.
Is there a pulse? No pulse? I want to make him look back at me – How to get him closer to [7th to 9th position]
He does suggestive things and treats me special, but when I ask him out, he acts like he doesn’t care. In this way, if you can’t tell if there is a pulse or not, there is a high possibility that it is in your favorite 10th position. If you want to get him to turn around, you need to think about what he’s feeling in two ways:
Pattern 1: I don’t want to have a physical relationship because I don’t like it.
Example: He likes skinny girls, but you’re chubby. Or maybe he likes chubby girls and you’re too skinny. He doesn’t sense any sexual appeal in your facial expressions, gestures, way of speaking, or voice.
How to deal with it: By adjusting your appearance to suit his tastes, you are more likely to get closer to where you want to have a physical relationship. If you don’t know what he likes, first go for looks that people would think of as “cute” or “beautiful.” If he isn’t too particular about his appearance, you can get him closer to “the 9th position he wants to have a physical relationship with” by just adjusting his preferences a little. On the other hand, if he has a narrow sexual strike zone and is very particular about his appearance, it may take a lot of effort.
Pattern 2: Although it’s within my preference, I don’t want to have a physical relationship because I don’t want to get into trouble.
In this case, he thinks that having a physical relationship with you will cause trouble. As long as he thinks that way, it will be difficult to get closer to him. For example, in a situation like this, he thinks that “some trouble is about to occur.”
Example: My boyfriend and I share the same workplace. Having a physical relationship with you will probably interfere with my work. He doesn’t like troublesome women. He feels that having a physical relationship with you will make him dependent on you, which will be troublesome later on. Physical relationships, such as between a teacher and a student, or between a member of society and a minor, pose ethical and social problems.
What to do: If he feels like he’s going to get into trouble with you, he won’t want to be around you. Once you get rid of any factors that might make you think he’s going to get into trouble, it’s not uncommon for him to suddenly become closer to you. For example, if your boyfriend thinks it would be troublesome if the people at work find out, then you should act like a firm woman who keeps it a secret from the people at work, in line with his values.It is common for him to quickly get close to you once you eliminate the factors that make you think he is going to get into trouble.
What are women who tend to be thought of as being in the 12th position that they don’t want to be liked?
Unfortunately, there are two main reasons why people think that they are in the 12th position.
- Because of her personality, he thinks she’s not good at being a person.
- Because of her appearance, he thinks that she is “physiologically unacceptable.”
Due to either her personality or appearance, he feels that if he interacts with her, he will be hurt, or that he doesn’t want to spend time or effort on her. I’ll give you a specific example.
Due to personality
- Mentally unstable, impulsive, or aggressive. (That’s what people think)
- They have a strong sense of victimhood and cause a disadvantage to those around them. (That’s what people think)
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Because of appearance
- Something other than your personality, such as your appearance, body odor, voice, or way of speaking, is physiologically unacceptable.
Even if a guy is extremely beautiful, if he feels that getting involved with her will hurt him, he may suddenly drop to the 12th position. If you are currently in the 12th position, it is important to first change your appearance so that you do not threaten him.
However, it will take a lot of time to change your impression enough to be placed in the 12th position. The impression of your appearance can change in just a few months. If you have never paid much attention to your appearance, it will be even more effective. On the other hand, in order to change the impression of your personality, you need to be prepared and work towards it, knowing that it will take at least six months.
Act like the “best-natured woman” you can imagine. It is also a good idea to imitate the behavior of a woman you know who is said to be a “very good girl.” Act cheerfully and cheerfully, always smile and treat everyone equally and kindly, don’t complain or say bad things, etc.
Consider whether the cause lies in your personality or appearance, and start with the most likely cause. If you don’t know the cause yourself, seriously ask your family or close friend, “I really want to change myself, so feel free to tell me even the toughest things.” I may be hurt by what was pointed out to me, but considering the length of the rest of my life, even if it hurts, I think it’s well worth knowing who I am now and taking action.
What to do when nothing works no matter what you try
Even though you are doing everything you can to analyze him using love profiling, be close to his values, and do everything you can, you may not be able to get close to where he wants you to be.
Cause 1: “His analysis” is wrong
To do love profiling correctly, you need a lot of accurate information about him. A common mistake is not seeing it from his point of view. This is a case where you are thinking from your own perspective rather than from his point of view, thinking, “This is how I would do it, so he should do it too.” It’s easy to interpret things based on how you perceive or feel things, but you need to think like him. If you don’t interpret it from his point of view, your analysis will miss the point. There are also cases where people just take his word for it and don’t delve into his essential values.
example
He says, “I like the outdoors, and I often go out with friends.” You interpret it as, “I see! He likes the outdoors,” and you think, “Let’s take the date outdoors, too.” Every time he asked me, “Where do you want to go?” I suggested hiking or cycling, and the date became all about the outdoors. You’re supposed to be catering to his tastes, but he doesn’t seem to be enjoying himself very much, and you’re starting to feel uneasy.
In this case, he may not be an outdoorsy person. It’s not like he’s lying, he might just be like “I like having barbecues, going camping, and having fun with a lot of people.” In this way, many errors in interpretation occur. What he likes may not be the outdoors, but “having fun with his friends.” If that’s the case, you might find it more fun to have drinks or have a hotpot party with everyone, including you, than to go hiking with just the two of you. Even he himself may not be aware of his true feelings. I think you can understand the importance of not just taking his word for it. When you ask him about how he spends his days off, what his hobbies are, etc., dig deeper into your questions by asking things like “What’s interesting about him?” and “What made you think he’s having fun?” If you analyze him incorrectly, your efforts may be off the mark. Take your time and get to know him from various angles.
Reason 2: His strike zone is narrow.
In this case, it doesn’t mean that your analysis of him is wrong or that you’re not trying hard enough. This is because the range of women he wants to date and marry is so narrow that it is difficult for him to get into it. Even among women, there are people who have high ideals, such as “I want a man to marry who is good-looking, tall, has a high income, is kind, is a good cook, and has a wealthy family.” Similarly, some men have high ideals. Some people wonder, “Does he have high expectations even though he’s not that popular?” However, his level of popularity has nothing to do with the ideals he expects from his partner. It’s the same as not all people who think “I love idols and will definitely date girls who look like idols” are good-looking.
Unfortunately, it can happen that no matter how hard you try, you can’t get into his strike zone and get him closer to where you want him to be. On the other hand, if you are able to put in that much effort, you will soon be blessed with meeting someone even more wonderful than him, even if you don’t have a relationship with him. This is the strange thing about relationships, but there are actually many people who say, “In the end, I’m glad things didn’t work out with my ex.”
Cause 3: For some reason, he can’t move on to the next step.
There are three reasons for this.
Pattern 1: He has a girlfriend, but he is actually married.
If he has a girlfriend or is married but is hiding it from you, it will be difficult to get closer to him. This is because he has feelings of love, responsibility, and guilt towards his girlfriend or wife. If he has a girlfriend, if you are closer to his ideals than he is, there is a chance that he will break up with you and choose you, although it may take some time. If he is already cold to his lover or the relationship is stuck in a rut, the position will be easier to approach.
Pattern 2: He is in a situation that is far from romantic.
example:
- Feeling unwell (including mental illness)
- I’m about to lose my job, my company is in danger of going bankrupt
- A family member has a problem such as illness or nursing care
- I made a serious mistake at work
- There is an important qualification exam
- Lost a lot of money (or got into debt), etc.
Pattern 3: Work and hobbies are the top priority
For him, love is not a very high priority in the first place. Even if a man thinks “I want a girlfriend” several times a year, it’s only a temporary feeling, and men spend a lot of time not being in love mode. He is busy with work and hobbies and wants to use his limited time and money, so he often says, “I’ll do it if I really want to fall in love, but it’s not that important.”
If any or more of these three conditions apply to you, you need to reconsider your timing. Also, in the case of patterns 2 and 3, even if it’s not the real reason, he may use it as a plausible excuse when he doesn’t want you to get closer than a certain amount. For example, even if you’re not really pressed for work, if you say that you are, he won’t want to date you. Therefore, you must carefully determine whether he is really not in a love mode. The easiest way to tell is by his behavior. It’s easy for people to lie with their words, but it’s difficult to lie through their actions. Especially when it comes to the long term. Let’s take a look at his consistent actions.
––What if he stops caring about you?
If I were to always treat him with angelic kindness, wouldn’t he get carried away and stop treating me well?
Sometimes you get worried like that. I’m sure there are some men who get so comfortable with your comfort that they end up neglecting to continue to value you. This phenomenon is likely to occur if you are exactly where he wants you to be.
But please don’t worry. The “12 positions” can be applied here as well. Act a little further away from where he wants you to be.
He said, “Huh? I feel like you don’t like me as much as before,” to the point where I was a little worried. The goal is for him to feel “a little uneasy.” Please refrain from violently rejecting behavior such as suddenly acting extremely cold or continuing to ignore contact.
for example,
- Try to completely stop calling him or massaging him.
- I respond to his messages more slowly than usual.
- Don’t prioritize dates first, make plans with friends, make time for yourself, and increase the number of days you don’t see him.
- For example, cutting the date short.
After understanding his busy schedule and sense of time, if you still feel that he doesn’t treat you well and you feel sad, try moving a little further away than he would like.
However, be careful not to do this too many times as it will make him uncomfortable and he will get cold easily. Think of it as a method that can only be used once every six months.
He felt at ease sitting cross-legged as you were as gentle as an angel. This is a way for him to realize how important you are by moving away from him a little, and to make him feel better about you.
“Girl, put on your iron pants! ”
Iron pan maidens (maidens who wear iron pants) refer to maidens who never take off their underwear unless they are lovers or husbands.
Many women who are seriously looking for a lover tend to be less cautious about the men they are interested in. As a result, we often end up spending the night together and regret it. If a man starts a physical relationship with a woman before deepening his emotional bond, he will harm the possibility of love developing. So please wear iron pants until we meet.
Advantage 1: Keep away men who are interested in your body
You may feel worried that if you end your physical relationship, you may never see your partner again. However, if you break off the physical relationship and can no longer see each other, you can quickly realize that the man was only for you physically. Break up with such men. Your time and love are both valuable and worth respecting, so choose a man who truly loves and values you. If you are a maiden with iron bread, you can distance yourself from men who are interested in your body.
Advantage 2: Being valued
People have a hard time feeling like “treasuring” things that are easily available. If you deepen your romantic relationship and then move on to a physical relationship, it will be easier for your partner to value you.
Advantage 3: Increased value as a favorite/marriage partner
Many people expect their partner to be chaste and not cheat. By maintaining this kind of attitude as an iron bread maiden, you will increase your value as someone’s favorite partner or marriage partner.
If you feel anxious, thinking, “I know, but I might be swept away,” the following measures are effective.
Measure 1: Tattered Underwear Strategy
Wear tattered underwear on your date. Please choose one that has stretchy rubber, pilling, or torn lace that makes you think, “I don’t want people to see me like this!” Even if you’re drunk and your judgment is impaired, the feeling of not wanting to see your underwear will become your defense.
Measure 2: Don’t get drunk
Be careful with alcohol and try to avoid it as much as possible. If you don’t like alcohol, declare from the beginning, “I’m not a big drinker, so I’ll only drink a little bit,” and try to drink slowly. As a result, you can prevent yourself from acting unexpectedly when you get drunk.
As a maiden with iron bread, she is often valued as a true favorite, keeping away from men who are interested in her body. If you are looking for a happy love life, we recommend becoming a maiden with iron bread.